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	<title>噢! 里奥 &#187; friends</title>
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		<title>别季</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 16:26:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>leo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[经过了几年异常稳定的零主动离职率之后，Team里有两个同事最终选择离开，寻求更好的发展，而身边一个认识了十年的哥们也决定离开魔都，寻求更像生活的生活。 我向来是一个对“变化”持非常不谨慎的乐观态度的人。无论是换工作还是换一个城市生活，看起来好像有太多的东西要失去，也有很多要重新适应，但我总发现，自己没变，目的地没变，步伐没变，甚至连你真正在乎的同行者也不会远离你，一切都只是悄悄拐了个弯，重新上路而已。 保持现状也一直只是选项之一，为啥我们总是没有理由的选它呢？]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>经过了几年异常稳定的零主动离职率之后，Team里有两个同事最终选择离开，寻求更好的发展，而身边一个认识了十年的哥们也决定离开魔都，寻求更像生活的生活。</p>
<p>我向来是一个对“变化”持非常不谨慎的乐观态度的人。无论是换工作还是换一个城市生活，看起来好像有太多的东西要失去，也有很多要重新适应，但我总发现，自己没变，目的地没变，步伐没变，甚至连你真正在乎的同行者也不会远离你，一切都只是悄悄拐了个弯，重新上路而已。</p>
<p>保持现状也一直只是选项之一，为啥我们总是没有理由的选它呢？</p>
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		<title>和仲尼同学的信</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 14:44:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>leo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[仲尼兄，亚美利坚人士，与我因其娶走的中国媳妇而结识，最近来信询问有关某国互联网访问限制情况，经仲尼本人同意，把部分内容转贴在这里，希望给其他和他有同样困惑的“互联网霸权主义”国家的人士有所参考： Xiang, How&#8217;s it going? Heard about all the drama with Google trying to go &#8220;uncensored&#8221; and maybe getting kicked out of China. Have you seen any problems so far? When I was there, I was able to get to www.google.com. Can you get to that site now, or can you only use www.google.cn? Very [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>仲尼兄，亚美利坚人士，与我因其娶走的中国媳妇而结识，最近来信询问有关某国互联网访问限制情况，经仲尼本人同意，把部分内容转贴在这里，希望给其他和他有同样困惑的“互联网霸权主义”国家的人士有所参考：</p>
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<blockquote><p>Xiang,</p>
<p>How&#8217;s it going? Heard about all the drama with Google trying to go &#8220;uncensored&#8221; and maybe getting kicked out of China.</p>
<p>Have you seen any problems so far? When I was there, I was able to get to www.google.com. Can you get to that site now, or can you only use www.google.cn?</p>
<p>Very curious,</p>
<p>John</p></blockquote>
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<div class="eng">Hi John,<br />
Great to hear from you, I  remember you very well.<br />
The google event triggered a wide discussion in  China. Almost all independent Chinese bloggers posted comments on it, expressing  their anger/ criticize to the government and support to google. Google is highly  recognized among young people in China. They trust it, believe in its “don’t be  evil” culture and, most of all, are very satisfied with its services, even if  the google.cn had been providing censored search results. Today, they believe  the quitting is unavoidable and are getting ready to say farewell to google,  some are backing up their personal contents stored in google docs, gmails and  other places. Some said: “Google, see you in the other side of the great fire  wall”, “Google, go as you will and come back when freedom lights the country” –  In a word, most people I know believe that Google has been doing something  righteous and is a great company with social responsibilty.</p>
<p>However, the  comments are banned on major media and all big websites. I saw a post on one of  the CCP owned news sites saying that Google was just acting in pettish in order  to get more benefits from Chinese government. Another interesting thing in China  is that whenever you see the poll results in big websites, you will find you are  on the opposite of the “majority” :-p, this time, no surprise, stat shows that  more than 70% people think that Google had broken the law and should get out of  China!<br />
I also asked my parents about their opinion on this. They seldom  access internet and knows little about google. They knew the news. But in their  minds, Google is just an evil foreign company hunting only for interest in  China. It is just understandable &#8211; they read news only from newspaper and TV,  where freedom of speech never exists. Google has its bad reputation on those  media for pornographic content in search results and violations of intellectual  properties in China. As an irony to the government, some bloggers even prepared  a news comment for CCTV – known as the mouthpiece for CCP – “Google has decided  to quit for its bad business operation in China. At the same time, this is just  a perfect demonstration of our law successfully defeats big foreign  company.”</p>
<p>A few IT industry leaders said it is a stupid idea from  business perspective and google will for sure regret it if they really end up  quitting China.</p>
<p>As a result, the biggest market competitor in China –  Baidu – has got a dramatic stock price rise on the day that Google made the  statements. Baidu owns the biggest share in the industry in China, but despised  by professionals because their heavy-censored search results are based on  advisement interests, so, it is not accountable at all. However, apparently,  their public relationship to government is much more “success”.</p>
<p>To answer  your question, the top 3 sites in the world: facebook, twitter, youtube are  completely inaccessible for quite a long time. And most services from Google can  be easily accessed till now.</p>
<p>I can feel the deep fear in the Chinese  government, they want to control the situation but they are losing it. China’s  economy has high potential risks which will lead to many social issues. now,  google has thrown the ball to the government, putting them on the seat to make  the hard decision. The problem is: either way will cause “negative results” for  CCP. Google.cn now stopped the censorship and if Google really gets banned in  China, more and more people will know how to “break the wall” and get to know  the real world even more!</p>
<p>I hope I stated everything you wanted to know  clear enough. I appreciate that you brought this up so that we had this chance  to discuss it. Let me know if you have any more questions or ideas.<br />
Cheers.</p>
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<div>Xiang</div>
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<div class="eng">Great summary of everything. Good to  know that these is some freedom to discuss this online. I have had many thoughts  on this topic. I think its so bizzarre for a government in the modern age to  believe that supressing something will make it disappear. Quite the  opposite!</p>
<p>Your response to my question was puzzling. You said that  facebook is completely inaccessible, but you obviously have access to it. Do you  proxy to get access, or did you mean to write that facebook was inaccessible for  a long time, until Google agreed to censor itself and was given permission to  operate in China. Since they got permission, now facebook, twitter, and youtube  are all accessible. Is that right?</p>
<p>My question was primarily about access  to google.com vs access to google.cn and what &#8220;censoring&#8221; really means. When I  was there, I took time to do some web browsing, and I found that I could access  google.com as well as google.cn. I thought it was strange that China would let  google.com be accessed from within China if they are worried about censoring. I  mean, from google.com, I searched for &#8220;Tiananmen&#8221; and several photos of soldiers  attacking students were returned, and I was able to visit those websites and see  pictures that the Chinese government didn&#8217;t want me seeing. Then, I searched for  天安门 and only pictures of government officials and sunny days were returned. I  got the impression from this that the &#8220;censoring&#8221; is more just about censoring  the search results of searches done in Chinese. Is that right? Or was there some  crack in the filter that the Chinese government doesn&#8217;t know about?</p>
<p>That  was my main curiosity. I figure the Chinese government has got to loosen up  eventually, and I am hoping that the one party system will give way and you guys  will be able to choose your leaders from amongst citizens. I know the US doesn&#8217;t  do that exactly either, but we claim that we do, and that&#8217;s something. And  really, ordinary people can become national leaders&#8230; but usually only if they  impress/please/obey people with lots of money and power.</p>
<p>Oh, one of the  thoughts I had on this issue was when I was trying to justify the censoring of  the search results. I started to wonder what exactly a search result is, and I  recalled that Google&#8217;s algorithm is based on how popular a certain link is for  the search terms that you typed in, and it tracks that popularity with the  number of times people click on it, or link to it, or whatever. So, I realized  that if we&#8217;re just counting the number of things, and if during the 1990&#8242;s and  early 2000&#8242;s there were 3 times as many internet users in America than there  were in China, then there would be a whole lot more links and clicks based on  America&#8217;s opinion of what a good website is for a certain search term, and thus  when Google&#8217;s algorithm returns something to a Chinese user, it would really  just be returning what most American&#8217;s would want to see based on the search  terms. Ultimately, its the perfect way for a technologically advanced nation  (America) to infuse their culture into a nation that is starting to use a  similar technology (China). So, maybe filtering isn&#8217;t so bad. However, what  should probably be done is China should force Google to use a new database for  searches done in China, and that database should only include clicks and links  done by Chinese citizens/computers.</p>
<p>What do you think? I know its not  exactly this simple, but seems like this is a slightly different perspective,  and could be valid.</p>
<p>John</p>
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<div>Sorry for the late response, some personal stuff has kept me busy for the past  week.</p>
<p>I really like your questions and opinions, but before digging into  this, I’d like to start with solving your &#8220;puzzle&#8221;.</p>
<p>As you guessed, I  actually access facebook and youtube through proxies. In China, we call the  method &#8220;getting across the wall&#8221; 翻墙. The serious restriction led to the results  that more and more people have to learn the skill of &#8220;翻墙&#8221; so that they could get  information they need. Those information are not necessarily political.</p>
<p>You mentioned twitter, yes, it is sure the most popular and hottest  tools in the world. And it is not popular in China for the obvious reason.  However, because of the powerful API, people are easily accessing it from plenty  of 3rd party applications. That’s why I saw more and more Chinese young people  and famous influencers join in. I do believe these techniques that support  information sharing will eventually change China in near future. But that is the  last thing that the party wants to see &#8211; people getting united. Hope that can  help you to understand the government’s behaviors: they might be tolerant to  criticize and negative opinions, but they must control the channels with which  people are able to get united and actually do something.</p>
<p>The Hillary’s  speech on internet freedom was not allowed to be published in Chinese Medias.  Instead, the news said that it is a reflection of hegemonism. Few people know  exactly what it about and its meaning. We always say that Americans know nothing  about China, while it turns out to be that we are the last one who sees how the  world looks like. When I was a little child, I was told that I should learn  English to see the real external world, but now, I found the meaning of studying  English is to see China more clearly. I doubt if any person will insist in  supporting the one-party system after understanding the political system of US.  The fact is: people are getting seriously misled far from the truth.</p>
<p>For  the search algorithm, I do not agree that it should be an excuse of the  filtering. I suppose this is more of a &#8220;contrification&#8221; issue than a culture  aggression. Chinese culture is abandoned by us ourselves, not anyone from  external. You can easily draw this conclusion from the long, long Chinese  history. The latest event was the well-known “culture revolution”. Who else can  protect your culture if you do not treasure it yourself? Like you said, putting  more weight on the local data in results might be an easy solution. I don&#8217;t  know. But I do not think filtering is good in anyway. We are trained to get  opinions from the authorities instead of our own judgment for centuries. And  that led to the lack of creativity and innovation, which is one of the key of  competencies in modern age.</p>
<p>I am worried about the future of China,  because more people are starting to get freed on mind in a remarkable speed, but  the government no longer has effective ways to get them back to the age of  ignorance and blindness.</p>
<p>Leo</p>
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		<title>十年</title>
		<link>http://www.o-leo.com/articles/the-whole-ten-years/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 16:54:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>leo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[这是我来到上海的第十个年头，和我的这帮兄弟们的交情，也历史性的升到了两位数。人生确实没几个十年，更没几个十年如一的好友。5年前端着脸盆拖着拖鞋慵懒的从澡堂走过球场的哥们，和眼前这些携着家眷、坐在MESA这惬意的露台开怀畅谈的家伙，突然有兴趣感受一下这当中变化的和没变的——尽是美好和清新。 下周六是贺鸡毛的婚礼，祝福一下这小伙，也的确该长大懂事些鸟~~~ 长大以后第一个表现：比如说，把我这伴郎这身新西服的款给报了 -_-b]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>这是我来到上海的第十个年头，和我的这帮兄弟们的交情，也历史性的升到了两位数。人生确实没几个十年，更没几个十年如一的好友。5年前端着脸盆拖着拖鞋慵懒的从澡堂走过球场的哥们，和眼前这些携着家眷、坐在MESA这惬意的露台开怀畅谈的家伙，突然有兴趣感受一下这当中变化的和没变的——尽是美好和清新。</p>
<p>下周六是<a href="http://gabrielrenault.spaces.live.com" target="_blank">贺鸡毛</a>的婚礼，祝福一下这小伙，也的确该长大懂事些鸟~~~</p>
<p>长大以后第一个表现：比如说，把我这伴郎这身<a href="http://www.yupoo.com/photos/view?id=ff808081193b8a720119436a41806dd3" target="_blank">新西服</a>的款给报了 -_-b</p>
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		<title>美好的开始</title>
		<link>http://www.o-leo.com/articles/marks-wedding/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2008 15:25:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>leo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[今天是好兄弟Mark大婚的日子，婚礼在锦江饭店的小礼堂举行，气氛轻松和缓又不失大方精致。

这是46...]]></description>
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<p>今天是好兄弟Mark大婚的日子，婚礼在锦江饭店的小礼堂举行，气氛轻松和缓又不失大方精致。</p>
<p>这是463的兄弟们的第一个婚礼，开了个好头。</p>
<p>祝福你们，希望能一生相守。</p>
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		<title>“博”来品 创刊号</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jun 2007 15:10:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[一直想在Blog里做这么一个小栏目，把我周围朋友们近期的精彩文章进行一个回顾和评论，类似导读或者文摘。
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>一直想在Blog里做这么一个小栏目，把我周围朋友们近期的精彩文章进行一个回顾和评论，类似导读或者文摘。<br />
动机来自看到这些文章时候希望评论和推荐的冲动，初步打算每月更新两次，计划半年内再拉几位好友开始Blogging，最终做到一周一次。<br />
今天上海风雨大作，雷鸣电闪，使命感顿时上升到迫使我行动的地步。<br />
名字是我前面在淋浴的时候想到的，在另一个名字：”零存整取“之间摇摆一下，还是觉得这个好。有博有品，岗岗的。<br />
那就开始吧。</p>
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首先看到的是同学+同事+老友<a target="_blank" href="http://gabrielrenault.spaces.live.com">Gabriel</a>的这篇“<a target="_blank" href="http://gabrielrenault.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!158FD3C7E37C87ED!538.entry">尊重而不是控制别人</a>”，不知道小伙受了什么样的“控制”刺激而产生了这样的一个题目，在我看来，的确是为不少人提供了一个角度和提示。最近也和不少朋友家人讨论“自我意识”的问题，这也是一个人能够成熟的面对世界，理解世界的一个重要标致，一个忽视他人独立人格的人，有极大的可能是没有完整和客观的自我意识的人，即使是一个貌似完成了自我意识的认知的个体，在外部条件发生某些变化时，仍然有可能“回退”到缺失自我意识的状态中去。<br />
这一点，和我们常挂在嘴边的“爱”，有着深远的关系，这些点点滴滴，也是我们每天最平凡生活里的一部分，就像那似水的年华。<br />
前同事+大才子金龙鱼，也就是<a target="_blank" href="http://iwander-photography.spaces.live.com">rome laosaos</a>写的“<a target="_blank" href="http://iwander-photography.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!DB84BFE143FA1CFE!319.entry">关于《追忆似水年华》的书评：《拥抱似水年华》</a>”让我看那了又看。我也是&#8221;炖粉条&#8221; (阿兰 德波顿的粉丝，我自创的)，看了他的<a target="_blank" href="http://www.douban.com/subject/1056461/">《旅行的艺术》</a>就喜欢上了，最近在读<a target="_blank" href="http://www.douban.com/subject/2036993/">《幸福的建筑》</a>，也很让我觉得过瘾。这篇blog里我爱死了这句：“日子像细长绵软的流水，只有在流经水底的岩石时，才会微微的改变轨迹，这变化似有似无，有时只在阳光下反射出浅浅的亮光，似乎打了个结，或者转了一个小弯；然后，还是同样的悄无声息。” 纵使我们有再多的理想与抱负，挫折与困惑，在似水的年华的面前，都只不过是淡淡的细流，甚至是从未激起过浪花的细流。<br />
没记错的话金龙鱼大哥是70年代末期出生的“70后”，在我的南半球好友Winmig的文章中有关于<a target="_blank" href="http://winmig.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!A36257E19E204D2F!1038.entry">70后</a>人群意识特征的解释，中国现在的社会也够有趣的，时代性咋就这么强，80后  70后，不过，这应该是好事，时代毕竟在变革，每一代人都有脱离不了的烙印。只是，有一点小小的愿望，被批量复制的文化教育出的中国人能越来越早的停止群体被动思维(说白了思维如果被动了就不叫思维了)，个性早该被解放了，GFW也挡不住。<br />
<a target="_blank" href="http://blog.sina.com.cn/kankandashan">侃侃大山</a>在他的某个<a target="_blank" href="http://digitallapee.spaces.live.com">blog分支</a>里的一篇文章也是不能错过的，<a target="_blank" href="http://digitallapee.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!E53ECBA7287D9745!105.entry">《别让灵魂赶不上我们的脚步》</a>，真不知道这小子为什么搞两个地方写，内容应该是转载的，但愿不是太火星。无论如何，随着事业发展的阶段变化，让我们知道该如何平衡我们的生活，成为一个越来越重要而且迫切的话题。在美国企业里工作，更能感觉到他们对工作和生活平衡的重视，我相信这是良性的意愿，也符合我个人对人生的认识。所以，推荐给同道者共享。<br />
这好像是blog建立一年多以来我最长的一个post，写的很快，也很兴奋，真的希望身边更多的好友能加入到bloger的行列中来，原因可以是<a target="_blank" href="http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/4cf259e401000ag0">侃侃大山</a>的，也可以是<a target="_blank" href="http://www.leosh.cn/blog-and-love/">我这样的</a>，当然你可以有任何一个理由开始一个blog，一旦开始和坚持，我和你打赌你不会后悔。<br />
另外：推荐大家试用<a target="_blank" href="http://www.yo2.cn/">yo2.cn</a>提供的blog托管服务，如果你舍不得msn space里好友通知带来的浏览量，也可以用其他的方法去实现两者的同步。<br />
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